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Let's make a mess, Steal a kiss in the moment ★

Tuesday, September 04, 2007 - 5:06 PM
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okay. i'm so gonna quit using [touching, looking, thinking anythng!] the com.

so this is [CONFIRMED!] the VERY LAST time.

bye!

ps. until after psle tat is.



Monday, September 03, 2007 - 5:06 PM
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so today was camp hope first day.

IS OKAY FUN. [dun surprised can]

MASS AEROBICS = not bad

MATHS = nice[ i love maths wat]

TEA BREAK = believe it or not, i actually liked lessons better than this.]

ENGLISH = fun ,seeing tat me, deeps, cher and huiqi crapped alot when we were supposed to be doing out compo. lolx.

then we had to change this sentence: 'the car avoided hitting the child.'
then we had to describe the boy, came out with panic-stricken and blahs, suddenly dunno me and zheyuan suddenly talk bout the boy smiling when the car wanted to hit him. zheyuan came up with something like this:

'the car avoided hitting the OPTIMISTIC boy.'
stoopid.

LUNCH = hmm. okay. [eat eat lorhs, got wat to tolk bout?]

STRESS MANAGEMENT STUFF = haiz, i think i got LITTLE bit stress. but i won't break down lahs. now breakdown psle HOW? wan break down also mus correct time mahs. but hor, in my opinion lah [i know i've said this a THOUSAND times], time management is damn important if you want to feel like you've got no stress. mus manage your time properly, dun do everything at once then you'll fed up then you'll think you cannot finish everything. one by one. and i think mrs choong said something bout attitude.

yes, tat is SO DAMN right. attitude is IMPORTANT. the 'bo chup' attitude is no good. the 'being too hard on yourself' attitude is no good too. some ppl got attitude prob [talking bout the 'bo chup'] plus they think it's cool. pls, getting 100++ for PSLE. cool? yeah right. *gag*

CHINESE = okay lah. zhou lao shi play some video for us to see. okay funny lorhs. some is very STOOPID lorhs seriously. but tat's wat makes it funny, haha.

SCIENCE = fun.xD



Saturday, September 01, 2007 - 7:15 PM
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i got tat from wikipedia.

it's really useful.xD.

i was feeling veri negative and i wanted to HUMILIATE bullies. there's NOTHING cool bout tat. i can never imagine the INSECURITY bullies mus be suffering. they dun deserve sympathy for goodness SAKE.



- 6:46 PM
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BULLYING

went out with xd shoe-hunting. but she kept hitting me for no reason lah. i was, of course, very unhappy. so i wondered if was bullied by her, so i did this research on bullying. you guys HAVE to read this.

DEFINTIONS OF BULLYING
'exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons.'
'when a person intentionally inflicts injury or discomfort upon another person, through physical contact, through words or in other ways.'

[they said there is no legal definitons. hmm, discomfort ar? then our class got a lot wor...]

EFFECTS
[i jus rephrase ar. they said something bout social isolation and 85% of the targets may go on to suffer stress-related disease which can sometimes lead to suicide. *gasp* no wonder lahs, ppl say got stress will stomach pain -is da mu zhi jiang one, dun come ridiculing me for tat stupid sentence- more often . i always tot my stomach there is like not very healthy.]

BULLYING BEHAVIOUR
direct bullying involves a great deal of physical aggression like:
`shoving and poking
`throwing things
`slapping
`choking
`punching
`kicking
`beating
`stabbing
`pulling hair
`scratching
`biting
`scraping

MUST READ
social aggresion is characterised by forcing the victim into social isolation. This isolation is achieved through a wide variety of techniques, including spreading gossip, refusing to socialize with the victim, bullying other people who wish to socialize with the victim, and criticizing the victim's manner of dress and other socially-significant markers (including the victim's race, religion, disability, etc).

other forms of indirect bullying which are more subtle and more likely to be verbal, such as name calling, the silent treatment, arguing others into submission, manipulation, gossip/ false gossip, lies, rumors/ false rumors, staring, giggling, laughing at the victim, saying certain words that trigger a reaction from a past event, and mocking.

CHARACTERISTICS OF BULLIES
motives for bullying and usually ENVY and RESENTMENT.

MUST READ
However many bullies have never suffered bullying themselves and only bully others because it is fun and it has nothing to do with being bullied when they were younger, to impress other people or to be socialy accepted.
[oohooh, making me feel better.]

WHAT CAN VICTIMS DO?
-If a person voluntarily comes to someone for help then they need to listen. Sometimes this is all that the victim wants and needs. (Note that many schools seem to think that this is all that is needed and, while their technical policy does not say so, in practice they refuse to take things beyond this level.)

-After investigating the situation, it may be that intervention is necessary with the bully or bullies. The situation needs to be addressed and hopefully a resolution to the problem can be found.

-Inform the parents of the victim and of the bully. Discuss possible solutions with them. Arrange a meeting with them if possible.

-Follow up in communicating with the victim, the parents and the teachers about the situation.
Monitor the behavior of the bully and the safety of the victim on a school-wide basis.

shh...
i'm writing in my journal [mrs kee's] tonight.



- 12:32 PM
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so bored. who wan go shoe-hunting with me ar? my shoe worn out liaoz. mimi say gib me money buy myself. planning to buy one flipflop and one for formal occasions de, but dunn0o whether enough a n0t lehs. see first.

I'M BORED.